Signs Of Cheating In A Relationship Your Must Watch Out For If You Suspect Your Spouse Of Cheating
There are several signs of cheating in a relationship, some are so constant that you will notice it in all relationships while some are relative. In this article, I will like to isolate the signs that are more prominent and are peculiar to almost all kinds of relationships so that when you see them, you will know what step to take next. These signs actually are not meant for you to now confront your partner but to alert you to do something because at this point, you can still save your relationship from heading for the rocks.
The first sign of cheating in a relationship is distance. Now this is independent of whether you live together or not. Distance will be felt. If he calls twice a day, there might be days you will not get any call at all. If she calls at all, she might be so distant even when she is talking to you. You will feel it. For people who are living close, instead of having your partner come around to say hi as usual, he or she will rather stay away for no particular reason. At this point, even though your partner may not have started cheating, he or she is already considering it seriously.
The second sign of cheating in a relationship is less of respect. This may not automatically mean disrespect but I tell you, you will be hearing things you never heard before since your relationship started. Now there are times differences will need to be settled but this one is not the issue of differences. Your partner’s attention is already diverted to some other person and unconsciously, he is going to compare you both in his or her heart and “out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks”
The third sign of cheating in a relationship is that you will cease to be the Miss or Mr. Perfect in your partner’s eye. There probably cannot be two people occupying the same spot and for the most part, the new will always take the highest spot and that means you will be relegated in your partner’s heart. So there is nothing you do that will measure up. If you buy gifts, it will not be appreciated. If you say I love you, she will tell you that is not true. If you pluck off your eye, your partner will say “I did not ask for that.”
If you want a billion signs, you will get them but how soon will you realize that your partner is cheating on you? You had better start finding ways to save your relationship and if you want out, better do right now before it gets messy.